And I also hate that when (some, not all) church people change their look on you when you tell them you're not one of them, like you've missed out a lot of great tremendous things. I don't need you to judge my life my decision my experience my thought my opinions my way of looking to people to the world and to you!! Stop looking at us like we live a very pathetic, pitiful life! It's just a pity in your mind only, YOUR MIND ONLY!!!! so STOP IT! IT IS SOOOOO ANNOYING THAT IT DRIVES PEOPLE CRAAAAAAZY!!!